Waiting Room Rules

“Some people see the glass half full. Others see it half empty. I see a glass that’s twice as big as it needs to be.”― George Carlin

I have learned from my peers over at valvereplacement.org that the time (days, weeks, months, even years) leading up to one’s heart surgery is appropriately nicknamed ‘The Waiting Room’. I still have a month and a half to go, but I have learned quite a bit about coping during this difficult period. I decided to make a Waiting Room rule list. Perhaps this list can help some future valve recipient.

‘Waiting Room’ Rules

  1. It is okay to be nervous, but do not let it consume you. Stay busy.
  2. Stay busy.
  3. Bring your loved ones, and trust that they will stay with you.
  4. Trust that your loved ones will be there (and still love you) when you get out of surgery.
  5. Exercise while waiting. Define restrictions and limitations and stay as active as possible.
  6. Daily responsibilities may be forgotten due to stress. Create daily checklists.
  7. Reduce stress with any or all of the following strategies: Exercise, Yoga, meditation, reading, attending social gatherings, traveling, blogging, talking, hugging, starting new hobbies, laughing, breathing.
  8. No yelling.
  9. Crying is okay.
  10. Do your research. Become as knowledgeable about your condition/ surgery/ recovery as your doctor.
  11. Stay positive by following this procedure: If life seems bad, adjust perspective. Repeat if necessary.

*ADDITION: I polled the audience over at valvereplacement.org to get feedback about this list. Other ‘Valvers’ chimed in with additions and constructive criticisms to my list. See that thread here: http://www.valvereplacement.org/forums/showthread.php?42161-Waiting-Room-Rule-List

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